Men’s charisma. A thing that gives you applause of the world and women’s interest. Contrary to appearances, a charismatic guy is not only a born leader like Barack Obama. It’s a type of person who, regardless of his look and economic status, enters into a room full of people and gets in the centre of attention immediately. He has got some kind of magnetism, which inspires trust and adoration of other people.
But, the most important is the fact that everyone can have it. This exceptional power can be put even into the least important aspect of life, affect it and also trigger off the energy of others.
How to be a guy with charisma?
- Inspire trust.
To achieve this – you have to do everything to be really confident and demonstrate your courage. You need to have goals and truly believe in your powers. People will trust you provided that your attitude to life is far from criticism, but rather seeking everywhere the bright side. They follow you if you love yourself for who you are, what you do and how you look. Everyone admires that. People cling to those who make such an impression and make use of their charm. In obtaining such effect, character traits are useful, a distinctive manner of being and style of dressing, in which one feels best.
- Use your body language.
It always betrays you so don’t pretend to be someone else. If you are undecided or uncertain, neither the best suit, nor the most expensive watch will help you. On the other hand, if you are confident, the body language can only enhance your leadership skills. Keep eye contact with interlocutors, keep a stable but not rigid attitude, use gestures, have a firm step, handshake and smile.
- Make people around you feel unique.
Listen to them as if they were the only people in the world – the most important for you at the moment. Respect everyone and treat all equally. If you have even a single thought of being better that others, get rid of it. This is a false belief. Be an active interlocutor and make compliments if you feel that somebody deserves it or needs approval. Demonstrate your willingness and engage others in contacting you. But remember – be honest in what you think, say and do what you believe in. A charismatic man is not always a nice guy, but authentic all the time. He speaks when he has something important to say and keeps quiet when he should.
- Show your sense of humour and keep perspective.
Telling jokes is always the guarantee of charming others. It is worth remembering that a joke must be appropriate and the quality, not quantity decides about being considered as a witty guy. Learn to laugh at yourself. If other people perceive you as a person who is aware of his own drawbacks and accepts them, they will feel freely and more comfortable with you.
- Don’t hide the emotions.
Self-confidence and charisma don’t exclude that in certain situations, despite happiness or joy, you may feel anger, pain, sadness, grief or fear. Remember, be always authentic.